The pluto person will often have the upper hand as they will have an easier time interpreting these rising energies. Subconscious fears and motives rise to the surface and suddenly become visible. Often times, after the first sexual encounter, the relationship shifts in a way that is felt by both parties. The goal is to have sex with one another, as this is when the plutonian relationship really takes off as the energies finally merge. This can make for an even more exiting bond as the pluto person will become obsessed with getting the saturn person to submit. Those with a strong saturn may play hard to get and may even have more discipline/endurance in terms of resisting the pluto person. Eye contact between the lovers can feel so magnetic, the two may feel inclined to get physical within the first couple of unions. The first meeting can be strictly psychic. The early stages of the relationship are often intense. Those with a strong angular pluto (or a pluto that aspects many personal planets/ personal planets in the 8th house) will often welcome this kind of connection with little to no fear while those with a weaker pluto may be prone to attempting to avoid the connection at all costs.
Based on the natal conditions of pluto in each of the natives charts, this connection can be magnetic or horrific. The pluto person feels an instant attraction to the planet person and must find a way to bond with them at all costs (it almost feels like their life depends on it). In Plutonian relationships, we often find that one person ends up playing Persephone (typically the planet person) while the other ends up playing Hades (the pluto person).
While the colder winter months are believed to be the period when Persephone was forced to stay with Hades in the underworld, resulting in Demeter neglecting her harvesting duties as she mourned for her daughter. Legend has it that the warm summer months are a result of Persephone being reunited with her mother, and thus, Demeter putting her regular care and consistency into harvesting and keeping the earth balanced. Thus, the Greek theory of Summer and Winter Solstice was born. Thanks to Demeter’s hard work, Persephone was able to come back to earth with her mother, but only under the condition that she would spend half a year with Hades, every year. Luckily, Demeter (Persephone’s mother) fought viciously for the return of her daughter while Zeus (Jupiter) took a passive stance, not wanting to sour the connection between him and his brother. The legend states that Persephone was raped and coerced into violent sexual acts against her will while staying in the underworld. The relationship between Hades and Persephone was intense, chaotic, and extreme. One day, while Persephone was out on her lonesome picking a narcissus flower, Hades (pluto) came up from the underworld and kidnapped her before anyone could notice. So in order to prevent his worst fear from becoming a reality, he decided that kidnapping Persephone would be his greatest bet. Long story short, Hades did not believe he was worthy of Persephone’s love as he feared she was too good for him, would realize her worth, and eventually abandon him. In Greek mythology, Persephone was the innocent maiden stolen from her controlling and over-protective mother and taken into the underworld by Hades, the brother of Zeus. In short, this is an emotionally intense relationship that blows hot and cold, drives you to emotional extremes, and challenges your deepest, most personal and important attitudes and habits.In order to get a really good understanding of Plutonian relationships, it’s best to examine the story of Persephone. You evoke intense emotional responses from each other and if you want this relationship to be a long-lasting one, you will have to be very careful because a blowup in the relationship can be triggered by jealousy, acts of unkindness, or simply the unwillingness of either of you to change deeply ingrained habits that are offensive to each other. You are simultaneously attracted and repulsed by each other. But you also will find yourself becoming uncomfortable with various deeply ingrained habits and attitudes of each other as you learn more about each other. Sexual attraction is strong and you find each other to be very magnetic or highly charismatic. The emotional bond between you is very complex.
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